How can I handle my argumentative friends?

I often find myself in arguments with my friends. How can I handle this better?

It's tough when disagreements arise. Have you tried discussing your feelings openly with them?

Not really, I usually just avoid the topic. Do you think that's a good idea?

Avoiding the topic can sometimes lead to more tension. It's better to address issues calmly when they arise.

What if they get defensive when I bring it up?

If they become defensive, try to use 'I' statements to express how you feel without blaming them. This can help reduce defensiveness.

That makes sense. Any tips on how to stay calm during these conversations?

Absolutely! Take deep breaths, listen actively, and remind yourself that it's okay to disagree. Focus on finding common ground.