How can I improve my active listening skills with my kids?

How can I improve my active listening skills with my kids?

Active listening with kids involves fully focusing on what they say, showing empathy, and responding thoughtfully. Here are some strategies: 1. Maintain eye contact, 2. Use affirming gestures, 3. Reflect back what they say, and 4. Ask open-ended questions.

Can you give me an example of reflecting back what they say?

Sure! If your child says, 'I had a tough day at school,' you might respond, 'It sounds like school was really challenging for you today. What happened?'

What are some open-ended questions I can ask?

Great question! You can ask things like, 'What was the best part of your day?' or 'How did that make you feel?' These encourage them to share more.

How do I handle it if they don't want to talk?

If they’re not ready to talk, give them space but let them know you’re there when they are. You might say, 'I’m here if you want to share anything later.'