How can I use humor to ease tension in tough talks?

How can I use humor to ease tension in tough talks?

Using humor can lighten the mood and make difficult conversations more approachable. What specific situation are you facing?

I need to discuss a performance issue with a team member.

You might start with a light-hearted comment about how everyone has off days. Something like, 'I promise I’m not here to give you a pop quiz!' can help.

That sounds good! What if they don’t respond well to humor?

If they seem resistant, gauge their reaction and switch to a more serious tone. Humor should be a bridge, not a barrier.

Thanks! Any tips on timing the humor?

Timing is key! Use humor to break the ice at the beginning, but be sensitive to the conversation's flow. Read the room!