What should I do if my reference is negative?

I just found out that my reference gave me a negative review. What should I do?

I'm sorry to hear that. First, try to understand the specific feedback they provided. It can help you address any issues.

But what if I can't change their opinion? Should I just avoid mentioning them?

You could consider discussing it with them directly to see if there's a way to improve their perception. If not, it might be best to seek other references.

That makes sense. Should I explain this to potential employers?

If the topic comes up, be honest about the situation but focus on what you've learned and how you've improved since then.

Thanks! I feel a bit better about it now.

You're welcome! Remember, everyone faces challenges. It's how you respond that matters.